Saturday, April 18, 2009

When is Love Enough?


One can give all the meaning of love... It's relative.
But one can't dispute one's love against the other's experience.
Pieces of advice will settle it.

When do we say that enough is everything that settles the unfortunate of affection?
Should the person need to submit himself to bitter experience of break-up?
Should he hope for a second, third, or the nth of his demise relationship?

Who can tell but he, himself, right?

It's so funny that bright people become preposterous, i.e., dull, ridiculous, absurd, laughable (say it) when love kicks in.

I am guilty.

But I enjoyed it. Though, the worse of it was moving on. It really hurt especially when you give everything to the person without reserving a bit to yourself.
It's love. How can you contest that?
You can't really dictate your heart that enough for the love, that you're giving too much.
Would you not give your best to the person you love?
Do you love him if you won't do it?
Who says you should do it?
Do you really love him?
To what extent is your love?

These are like existential questions which anyone has opinion about and each is true, thus, incontestable.

But when is enough?

I don't know. I speak for myself.

I hoped...I prayed...I did everything to keep the relationship from faltering...

Can I say that it's enough?

I was exhausted...so worn out.

I don't know when I said it's enough. But I felt it.

It was all I need to change my life.

So do I know when one should say enough?

NO! Definitely, not.
It’s he, himself, who will discern when enough is everything.

Love is a worthwhile experience. Live with it. Make the most out of it. Just be prepare about falling out from it .


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