They say that in a relationship, one gives the most of himself, i.e., one gives the utmost love while the other reserves something. Hence, it can never be on the same extent of love. This is, as they claim, love. Who are they? People in loved, thus, blame it to experience.
Relationship is never always a cloud 9 experience. It may be almost always, but never at all times. Besides, as they say, two people will never grow together in a relationship if they won’t struggle at all. It’s just a fairytale, an artificial celebration of bond. A plastic, so to speak. During the lowest of lows in a relationship, both or any of the parties may decide unwisely; or maybe, because of the spur of moment, reckless decision commences by both or one party. Let me be bias to the underdog. Say, he is the one who’s giving everything to his partner, thus, decides to keep the relationship going. In other words, he’s the unreserved lover. But alas! The other partner is firm with his decision.
“Let us call this an end.”
Would you imagine how devastating to him that everything ends up to nothing however hopeful he is?
It’s a sad story that merely thinking of it makes me want to stay single in status. Now, the almost-perfect lover, the former, does everything to "found" the relationship back. For whatever reason/s, the other doesn’t want to push through. Let us just give him the benefit of the doubt. Come several days, weeks and months from the break-up and nothing changes his mind to rebuild the warmth of love with this underdog lover. On the hand, he takes all the measures to delight him, thinking and hoping that he would love him again.
Several months have passed, worse has engulfed the situation. The latter flirts around while he stays steadfast to him….. Then one day, he came back to his senses. He knew that he has drastically engaged himself to all ways and means of winning back the downfallen relationship.. He is decided now. It’s finally goodbye.
Relationship is never always a cloud 9 experience. It may be almost always, but never at all times. Besides, as they say, two people will never grow together in a relationship if they won’t struggle at all. It’s just a fairytale, an artificial celebration of bond. A plastic, so to speak. During the lowest of lows in a relationship, both or any of the parties may decide unwisely; or maybe, because of the spur of moment, reckless decision commences by both or one party. Let me be bias to the underdog. Say, he is the one who’s giving everything to his partner, thus, decides to keep the relationship going. In other words, he’s the unreserved lover. But alas! The other partner is firm with his decision.
“Let us call this an end.”
Would you imagine how devastating to him that everything ends up to nothing however hopeful he is?
It’s a sad story that merely thinking of it makes me want to stay single in status. Now, the almost-perfect lover, the former, does everything to "found" the relationship back. For whatever reason/s, the other doesn’t want to push through. Let us just give him the benefit of the doubt. Come several days, weeks and months from the break-up and nothing changes his mind to rebuild the warmth of love with this underdog lover. On the hand, he takes all the measures to delight him, thinking and hoping that he would love him again.
Several months have passed, worse has engulfed the situation. The latter flirts around while he stays steadfast to him….. Then one day, he came back to his senses. He knew that he has drastically engaged himself to all ways and means of winning back the downfallen relationship.. He is decided now. It’s finally goodbye.
1 comment:
woOahh..goodbye? is this for real..is this another one of your friends stories..haha
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