Saturday, April 25, 2009

Love is not Waste


Why does one can't get over someone in a snap of a finger?
Why does he cry over spilt milk? Huh, cliché.
Why do you falter on a shuttered relationship?

You care; you love; I know!

He is not your life, though.

Who are you before you were with him? You were someone who was, probably, a nobody or somebody. Regardless, you had a life.

Relationship is relative; and I’m not in the position to push these pieces of advice.

I may be speaking for a person who is dear to me; but by Jove, it all boils down to atonement of life, self-punishment, squandering one’s self to unproductive life!

There is a life after demise.

Move on.

Accept it.

Easy said than done, eh. It’s another cliché.

You don’t have to be a loser like me before. It’s not about cynicism. It’s about realistic approach to almost anything…to love, particularly.

I’m not a love doctor. What drives me to impart this unsolicited advice is that I’ve seen many relationships fall apart, lovers go astray, lovers disheartened; and it’s just so sad to think that life becomes useless. It seems that everything fall apart. Their world is love; and once love (lover) is lost, the other party doesn’t know what to do.

It’s really hard to move on. I’m also speaking for myself. I was even at the verge of destroying my life, i.e., suicide. I just realized how I stupefied myself for such an ordeal.

Nonetheless, I survived.

You, too, can survive this torment.

How would you do it?

It’s relative. You know yourself. It’s you who can answer that question. As I’ve said, I’m just imparting my observation, my experience, someone else’s, hoping that this would be a counsel to you. You can reached me at this blogspot, though, if you want to dig in what you have…


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